Pleasure Unleashed: The 16 Best Sex Toys For Gay Men To Take Your Experience To The Next Level!

Oh, honey! Unleash your inner Lil Nas X and ride till you can’t no more with our delightful guide to the best sex toys for gay men that’ll leave you not only Montero-moaning but also breathing like Doja after a Cat-aclysmic climax!

Now, we all crave a partner who can stir the cosmos of our senses, making stars twinkle a bit brighter as they leave us panting, glowing, and perhaps whispering sweet sonnets of satisfaction amidst the silk sheets. But let’s get real, sometimes we need that extra spice, a titillating assistant to elevate our intimate Broadway shows from wickedly enjoyable to Hamilton-level epic!

Nothing to blush about, cherubs! Sprinkling a bit of tech-magic into our passionate embraces or solitary symphonies of self-love makes every crescendo more riveting, every note quiver with intensity. With the best gay sex toys for men, the pleasure isn’t just promised; it’s an orchestrated masterpiece of ecstasy!

And speaking of solos and duets, these delightful gadgets aren’t just for the starry nights under the flickering candles but also for those sun-kissed mornings where the coffee isn’t the only thing steaming hot. Whether your stage is set for a duet or a one-man show, our carefully curated list of these gay sex toys ensures standing ovations and encores aplenty!

Before you start experimenting with questionable objects, remember: your treasure trove down there deserves more than an improvised escapade with household items that have no business mingling with your jewels. We’ve all heard those ER stories that start with adventure and end with a cringe; save the drama for your mama, and invest in pleasure designed for titillation, not trepidation!

So, let go of the hesitation, and let’s embark on a sensual adventure where choice meets delight. The path may have its turns and tantalizing twists, but with our guide illuminating the best sex toys for gay men, consider yourself armed with a map to buried (or not-so-buried) treasures. The curtain rises, the lights dim, and your symphony of ecstasy awaits its conductor!

Orgasmic Penis Sucking Machine

Don’t let the clunky and slightly off-putting name of this toy fool you. It’s basically a sophisticated glory hole, and yet it’s so much more than that. With special 10-frequency vibration, you can be sure you’ll get more than half-hearted pressure. It delivers powerful suction pulses to your dick, stimulating it just like a blow job.  It’s shaped conveniently like a blow dryer, with the lower part acting as a handle with which to grip the toy.

The handle also contains all the buttons, so you can control the speed of vibration easily. It’s made of silica gel, which is easy to clean as well as long-lasting. It can be used with water-based lube for a much more unforgettable experience. 

Hands Free Penis Massager

I know we’re all used to holding sex toys while we use them, but sometimes we all crave that experience of fisting our hands in the sheets or gripping the headboard like we would if our hands weren’t occupied. With this hands-free Penis massager, your wish can be granted.

This toy is truly next-generation, with an inbuilt sex voice, because sometimes we all need that extra encouragement that comes from hearing a sensual voice to send us over the edge. It’s even got USB charging, and the battery lasts about fifteen hours, so there’s no chance of it dying just as you’re about to come. It’s got an intelligent heating system that adjusts according to your needs, as well as six suction and massage modes.

Blowjob Mastrubator Cup

One of the most off-putting features of a sex toy is the noise level. No one wants to have their sexy times interrupted by neighbours or family members banging on the door telling them to keep the noise down. That’s why we’re in love with this masturbator cup. Even the website description carries an assurance that the noise – the maximum noise level, no less – is less than sixty decibels.

That’s about the sound of two people having a conversation three feet apart! It’s also USB chargeable, so you could easily get it running with your phone charger without having to run around looking for the charger. It’s also made from medical-grade silicone and comes shipped in discreet packaging to protect your privacy.

Fluorescent Glow In The Dark Elastic Harness

While this harness may not exactly be a sex toy, it can also format part of your arsenal, so to speak, for tumbling beneath the sheets. For one, it serves to highlight your physique, especially the brighter neon colours. We especially love the green. It forms a nice contrast with the gold stars that embellish them. There are four colors in total, so you can choose your own personal favourite.

They’re made of special fluorescent material that glows under UV lights, which makes them perfect for raves, parties or just cool pictures to send to your ape tuners or use as your Grindr profile picture. The material it’s made from is elastic, and this means it stretches to fit most people.

Gay Prostate Massager

There’s something fun and light about this prostate massager, and we think it’ll become an instant classic. It’s made from high-quality silicone that’s incredibly easy to clean. It can be washed gently with water or wiped with wet wipes or alcohol. The latter is a great tip for when you’re in a hurry, but you’re not certain how clean it is. It’s very flexible, making it more convenient for reaching deep inside to bring you more pleasure.

There are three sizes, which all differ by width and height. Each section of the toy has different widths, so you can experience varied and complex sensations. It’s waterproof, and the material deters the growth of bacteria. The packaging does not beat any product descriptions, so your privacy is preserved. 

Vibrating Double Penetration Dildo

What’s better than a sex toy for one? A sex toy for two. And one that vibrates? Sign us up for one or two…or ten. This Vibrating Dildo comes with an ingenious design that means that a second gay Dildo can be attached to it.

The attached Dildo can be faced in the opposite direction, making it possible for two partners to use it, or – and we strongly advise that you only attempt this if you have experience with this sort of thing – it can be faced the same way as the first one and used for double penetration. Whichever way you want to use it, it runs on LR44 button batteries, so it’s long-lasting.

It’s also waterproof, has 7-frequency vibration, and is made of skin-friendly silicone. Talk about a rare find.

Vibrating Cock Ring

This toy is interesting, because, on one hand, a cock ring is used to reduce pleasure and delay climax, so a vibrating one presents a challenge, but challenges can be sexy too. May we suggest that this toy is perfect for edge play? It’ll be great for keeping you had and aching, while still holding your orgasm at bay so you can last longer. It works with USB charging, so you can carry it around and not have to bring along an extra charger for it.

It’s completely waterproof, so you can use it in the shower without worrying about it getting damaged. It comes in two design services, with each one having ten vibration frequencies. The cool design is also an added bonus.

Luminous Glow In The Dark Dragon Dildo With Suction Cup

Some people like their sex toys dark and goth and dreary. Others like them as fleshlike and realistic as possible. Still others like them bright and colourful, with neon pinks and acid greens and as far away from realistic as possible. If you’re in the third group, you’ll like this dildo. It’s dragon-themed, so it’s got dragon scales along the base. But that’s not even the greatest part of it.

It’s got fantastical-looking bands of colour all around it, which form a jewel-toned rainbow. It’s even got moulded plastic ‘veins’ on it, for that extra sensation. There are almost a dozen different variations, with each of them differing in shape, size and design. You can make a game of collecting each one until you’ve got the whole set.

Vibrating Chastity Cage

Imagine a chastity cage that vibrates. It’ll keep you on the brink of orgasm, preventing you from cumming while still making sure that you feel sweet, excruciating pleasure. If you love sexual experiences that keep you supplied with flashbacks that make you sweat, then you should get one of these. It’s made like a modern chastity cage, but a little exploration will show that the interior is ribbed, and it’s got nine vibration modes.

A ring goes over the base of your cock to prevent your climax, while the vibrating pouch gently cups the balls, delivering pulses of sensation that’ll have you shivering. It’s a good toy for experimenting with orgasm denial and control, with yourself or with a partner. The charity belch is controlled by a handheld device.

Penis Delay Trainer

Have you ever got this niggling feeling that you don’t last as long as you want to? Maybe you find yourself cumming quicker than you used to and you have no idea what’s behind it? You could take the medical route, but asides from that, this sleek, modern penis delay trainer could also be of help. You could use it by yourself or with a partner, and it doesn’t even have to be used therapeutically.

It’s a great sex toy on its own, providing gentle stimulation. It’s perfect when you’re in the mood for something softer. It runs on electricity and is also made from a rubber and silicone material. Making it strong, hardy and easy to clean. It also pairs well with lube. 

Open Mouth Dildo Gag

While gags may not have started as some of the most common sex toys, they are thankfully becoming more and more mainstream. Still, most folks are used to ball gags or similarly mild toys. This gag takes things to the next level by replacing the ball, with a 6 cm Dildo. And that’s not even all. On the other side, there’s a 13 cm Dildo that can be used by your partner in all sorts of naughty ways.

The gag fastens with a POOL leather strap across the head, so it’s seated securely. The dildos are made of silicone, so there’s little risk of choking. Cleaning them out after is as easy as washing them gently in water.

Sexy Boudoir BDSM Cuffs & Collar

BDSM undoubtedly opens up a whole other dimension to your sex life. Even if you don’t intend to dolly immerse yourself in the lifestyle, it wouldn’t hurt to give it a try once in a while. Some light bondage and domination and even a little spanking can change your sex life for the better. To start with, you could use these sexy bandage cuffs and collar. They come in a set and a designed not just for functionality, but also for beauty.

The cuffs and collar are made of shiny leather, lined with red fabric. The three pieces are connected by slim golden chains. The buckles and hooks are also made of gold. It’s as attractive as it is useful.

Dual Channel Male Masturbator

These masturbators may not look like much, but they do pack a punch. They are cylindrical tubes with ridged channels at both ends that slow two people to use one at once. The most interesting Gorton is that they come in three textures ranging from hard to soft, with the descriptors referring to the inner channel. The three textures are all different colours as well. They’re made from soft TPE and fit most dick sizes.

It’s advisable to use them with lube. Follow the specific cleaning instructions to make it last longer and avoid the possibility of catching any bugs.

Light Up Furry Butt Plug

This is one of those quirky and slightly weird toys everyone has at the very bottom of their underwear drawer. They don’t see much use, but when they do, it’s always an experience. It looks like an ordinary butt plug in either green or white, but once the lights go out, it becomes a beautiful thing, covered in bands of luminosity, forming a rainbow pattern. It comes in three colours and two sizes and is made from silicon and artificial fur.

Luminous Glow In The Dark Dildo

Do you need a luminous-glow-in-the dark dildo? probably not. If something happened and all the light suddenly disappeared, you’d probably have more important things to do than gather your dildos. That doesn’t mean you can’t want a luminous glow-in-the-dark dildo. It’s such a cool thing to have. Built from food-processing silicone that’s mild, hypoallergenic and gentle on your skin, it can be used in whatever way you wish.

Just make sure you use some water-based lube for beat effect. It comes in a number of colours, and even has ‘veins’ on it for optimal stimulation. 

Glow In The Dark Tail Anal Plug

These anal plugs remind us of little sperm cells, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. They’re small, with thin, flexible ends that she meant to serve as tails after the button plug has been inserted. They’re made of silicon and paired with a little lube, they’re great for hands-free stimulation, as well as a little bit of furry play if you’re so inclined.

They come in pastel pink and green, and furry connotations aside, they really are a nifty pair of butt plugs for the functionality alone. Add the quirky looks, and we’re sold.